Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Octuplets: Paranoid Nadya fires *Angels in Waiting*

Octuplets: Paranoid Nadya fires *Angels in Waiting*

By mattie14

March 24, 2009

Well, if there was any remaining doubt about the selfishness and unfitness of that woman to care for her children - this is it: she fired Angels in Waiting (AIW).

AIW is a non-profit organization that was founded in 2005 by Linda Conforti-West, Neonatal ICU nurse and foster mom and Jackie Peebles, Infant Development Expert, and is aimed at ensuring premature infants get maximum care in order to help them “catch up”.

Angels In Waiting (AIW) is a nonprofit 501(c) (3) established in 2005 to meet the needs of the most vulnerable population of America’s foster children, the forgotten medically fragile preemies, Infants and children. Our mission is “to move medically fragile foster care infants and young children into private residences under the care of Registered and Licensed Vocational nurses as their foster parents.”

They had initially offered that mentally ill delusional woman free 24/7 care for all 14 children in their facility up in Arrowhead, California. That meant that her three older children, who already have neurological disabilities along the autism spectrum: one with ADHD that requires intense intervention, which he had not been getting, and one with speech delay that has a narrow window for treatment - would have received individual care to help them catch up.

And what did that selfish birther do?

She refused.

When pressed, she said she didn’t want to take her kids out of school and that it was “too cold” up there. And then there’s the matter of AIW refusing to allow her to have a reality show - clearly where this is heading and has always been heading. She has only so many family photos she can sell and her father assured GMA that “she’s not the kind of person” to take the $1M + 1 year free healthcare offer to do a pornographic movie.

In a completely separate move, Gloria Allred had filed a complaint with the police alleging that Nadya was unable to care for her children. Both happened on the same day - the complaint and the offer by Angels in Waiting - setting off her paranoia. Add that AIW is geared towards helping premature foster children — she will do anything to keep her meal tickets in her possession - even to their obvious detriment, as evidenced by her decision to fire AIW.

When AIW’s offer was refused, they engaged the services of Gloria Allred: a high-powered, well-known and well-regarded attorney, who specializes in defending women. Allred then became directly involved in the process, which served to increase that woman’s paranoia.

Kaiser Permanente, the hospital in which she birthed and whose bill she is not paying, after seeing the filthy and unsafe conditions (didn’t have a smoke alarm, had food stuck on the walls and was completely unchildproofed) the older 6 were living in, told her she would have to rectify matters before any of the octuplets were sent home. This prompted a distress call to Dr Phil, who then intervened. Gloria Allred, AIW and that woman met with Dr Phil at his palatial estate and came to an agreement - see links below.

Dr Phil then boosted his ratings by having that woman on his show - two day - and getting folks to give her free stuff. The diaper and formula companies redacted their offer because of her behavior and the negative publicity brought on by it.

She was interviewed by the hospital’s Social Service folks, who then went out to her new house and still found it to be lacking and made specific demands, which evidently were fulfilled. That woman was supposed to meet them there, but she did not. Instead, she was at her other house being interviewed by Radaronline - where she is keeping a daily blog. Thankfully they are capturing her daily madness, which will make excellent exhibits in the future custody court cases.

Of note in that interview–besides the decibel level that the preemies will and most likely have been exposed to–she discussed the fact she had no money or donations for the nanny care, and yet, she had just moved into a $564,900 house instead of having the other one fixed up. Could be because it is in foreclosure because the grandmother had not made a mortgage payment since May 2008 and was more than $23K in arrears, having already abandoned a house and filed for bankruptcy.

The hospital then deemed it safe to release the first two preemies to her care while AIW was still involved. Things appeared to be going well enough for the hospital to release two more. At present, there are 4 preemies completely reliant on that selfish woman’s care. I don’t know how many nannies and volunteers are involved.

Over the weekend, her paranoia blossomed full time and she had enough, according to her lawyer. Thing is she never really trusted Allred or AIW–she admitted so in her Dr Phil appearance with AIW in attendance–and only took them on because the preemies’ release from the hospital was basically dependent on AIW being on board.

Because she had refused to go along with the initial plan, AIW offered only to train her nannies on how to care and interact with the preemies. It is unclear if she is paying for it or if the California taxpayers are picking that up, also. She is/was convinced that it’s because there are no donations. She refuses their offer, then complains about it. Allred, as AIW’s representative, has denied the allegation.

Can anyone blame the lack of donations - even though AIW said not a single penny would go to any of that woman’s family? She was intent on using every single one of those embryos no matter how many children the pregnancies resulted in. She didn’t mean to but she admitted it in her interview with her mother on radaronline. See body language interview below.

According to USMAGAZINE.com (USM), she was certain they were “spying” on her. As a aside, I find it interesting that the best and most reliable source of information comes from gossip celebrity sites. I wonder how much they paying her per word? But for once they are serving a useful purpose.

USMAGAZINE:

NADYA: Yes, it’s true. I released AIW. It was really bad. That’s all I can say. I can’t confirm, why, in particular. I will be releasing the details soon.

Who can possibly believe this? How bad is something that is free and geared toward the benefit of all 14 of her children? And I hope to God that a report has been made. AIW has no self-interest. They function through private funding and have spent a great deal of their time–uncompensated–dealing with this selfish woman for the sake of the children. If they not had the children as their primary concern they would have given up when that woman first refused their care. Dr Phil is another matter.

USM: Her spokesman accused the non-profit charity group…of spying on her and reporting her to child welfare officials.

Suleman had several confrontations with the nurses, her attorney Jeff Czech said. Relations worsened Sunday when Suleman came to believe that Angels in Waiting founder Linda West-Conforti was allegedly filing a report against her with child welfare officials.

Said Czech, “Nadya felt that she was being judged wrongfully, and she didn’t need it.”

From AP’s SHAYA TAYEFE MOHAJER:

CZECH: It started out adversarial and never really resolved itself. Nadya felt that she was being judged wrongfully and she didn’t need it. All it did was make a difficult situation worse.

“She” didn’t need it. Once again she is putting her needs ahead of the preemies - clear proof of her unfitness. If there was a problem why fire them? Why not bring in Social Services or DCFS - why they exist - and have them watch the interactions firsthand?

USM: Suleman — who has custody of four infants so far — says she’ll rely on her own nannies — whom she had planned to hire regardless of Angels in Waiting’s assistance — to care for the babies instead.

Kaiser Permanente nurses have now taken over the job of teaching the nannies - and her - how to care for the children. She gave birth on Jan 26th and is unable to instruct the nannies herself.

AP: Czech said that Suleman will have her nannies trained by nurses from the Kaiser Permanente Bellflower Medical Center, where the octuplets were born on Jan. 26. Kaiser spokesman Jim Anderson said the hospital sends out home health nurses to provide training and guidance to new mothers, and at least two such visits have been made to the Suleman home. Anderson said he was not sure how much the program costs.

And the lawyer, who is acting as spokesperson, told PEOPLE:

CZECH: It was a poor fit from the start. Suleman felt uncomfortable by some of the things that Gloria Allred said, starting with her complaint to CPS.

Yeah, because Allred’s on to her. She is not someone who will back down and she certainly knows the law.

A 24 hour videocam placed in view of the preemies should be a condition at this point. That is the only way the truth will come out, and more importantly, would ensure the safety of the preemise. I don’t know how much Radaronline has captured of this supposed really bad-ness she alleges - I haven’t been watching her videos for the last week - she disgusts me, if you haven’t noticed by now. However, the sheer volume and factual nature of these posts should demonstrate that it is born not out of personal bias, but rather from watching her many videos and keeping apprised of developments by fellow citizen, Mrs Etta Mae Perkins.

USM: According to RadarOnline.com, which first broke the story RadarOnline.com, members of Angels in Waiting are scheduled to tape an episode of Dr. Phil Tuesday. Suleman also hopes to appear on the show to defend herself.

And what type of defense might that be? Guess we will find out later today on Radaronline. AIW will evidently air on Dr Phil tomorrow.

And what is it going to take for DCFS to intervene before one of those preemies are re-hospitalized?

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Below are some of the posts that relate to this story. Here is a comprehensive list, which includes her TV interviews. Ann Curry’s I just realized was not posted, so I will do that some time today, and you can follow the full progression of her delusional madness first interview onward.

(2-9) Octuplets: Octuplets: already filthy house unfit for children (pix)
(2-24) Octuplets: Cosmetic surgery, IVF, food stamps, disability, bankruptcy & foreclosure
(2-25) Octuplets: Grandfather on Oprah daughter “not mentally complete”
(2-25) Octuplets: Hospital questioning her ability to care for children
(2-26) Octuplets: Video of inside the home
(2-26) Octuplets: Body language mother vs grandmother video (Part 1)
(2-26) Octuplets: Body language mother vs grandmother video (Part 2)
(2-29) Octuplets: What about the other children?
(3-3) Octuplets: Gloria Allred & *Angels in Waiting* (The Early Show video)
(3-3) Octuplets: Gloria Allred & *Angels in Waiting* offer (press conference)
(3-2) Octuplets: *Angels in Waiting’s* free 24/7 care for all 14 REFUSED
(3-2) Octuplets: What is it going to take?
(3-4) Octuplets: Dear LA Department of Children and Family Services: re Nadya Suleman
(3-5) Octuplets: 911 call “I’m gonna kill myself!”
(3-6) Octuplets: Nadya, Gloria Allred, *Angels in Waiting* & Dr Phil
(3-6) Octuplets: Dr Phil on The View: “Her contact with reality is fleeting at best”
(3-9) Octuplets: Nadya accepts *Angels in Waiting’s* offer
(3-9) Octuplets: Agreement between Nadya, Gloria Allred, *Angels in Waiting* & Dr Phil
(3-9) Octuplets: Grandfather purchase $564,900 house
(3-10) Octuplets: Nadya on Dr Phil (Part 1: *Angels in Waiting* controversy)
(3-11) Octuplets: Nadya on Dr Phil (Part 5: *Angels in Waiting* care)
(3-11) Octuplets: Grandfather on GMA
(3-16) Octuplets: Nadya spent $1K on makeup
(3-24) Octuplets: Paranoid Nadya fires *Angels in Waiting*
(3-24) Octuplets: Nadya offered porn star nannies
(3-24) Octuplets: 911 by Nadya’s nanny to remove Gloria Allred (3-17)


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