Showing posts with label barry sr. Show all posts
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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

“Dreams” excerpt re: barry’s brother Mark

November 18, 2009

barry meets with Mark and his wife in Beijing

barry’s encounter with half-brother Mark Okoth Obama Ndesandjo in Kenya. They have the same father – barry Sr aka “Old Man”. Ruth, of Jewish-Lithuanian descent, is Mark’s mother.

barry’s family tree

Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance
© Barack Obama 1995, 2004
Crown Publishing (Random House)
From Google books
Pages 339 – 344

Relevant conversation page 343-345

The following week, I called Mark and suggested that we go out to lunch. He seemed a bit hesitant, but eventually agreed to meet at an Indian restaurant downtown. He was more relaxed than he had been during our first meeting, making a few self-deprecatory jokes, offering his onservations about California and academic infighting. As the meal wore on, I asked him how it felt being back for the summer.

“Fine,” he said. “It’s nice to see my mom and dad, of course. And Joey–he’s a really geat kid.” Mark cut off a bite of his samosa and put it into his mouth. “As for the rest of Kenya, I don’t feel much of an attachment. Just another poor African country.”

“You don’t ever think about settling here?”

Mark took a sip from his Coke, “No,” he said. I mean there’s not much work for a physicist, is there, in a country where the average person doesn’t have a telephone.”

I should have stopped then, but something — the certainty in this brother’s voice, maybe, or our rough resemblance, like looking into a foggy mirror — made me want to push harder. I asked, “Don’t you ever feel like you might be losing something?”

Mark put down his knife and fork, and for the first time that afternoon his eyes looked straight into mine.

‘I understand what you’re getting at,’ he said flatly. ‘You think that somehow I’m cut off from my roots, that sort of thing.’ He wiped his mouth and dropped the napkin onto his plate. ‘Well, you’re right. At a certain point, I made a decision not think about who my real father was. He was dead to me even when he was still alive. I knew that he was a drunk and showed no concern for his wife or children. That was enough.’

‘It made you mad.’

‘Not mad. Just numb.’

‘And that doesn’t bother you? Being numb, I mean?’

‘Towards him, no. Other things move me. Beethoven’s symphonies. Shakespeare’s sonnets. I know — it’s not what an African is supposed to care about. But who’s to tell me what I should and shouldn’t care about? Understand, I’m not ashamed of being half Kenyan. I just don’t ask myself a lot of questions about what it all means. About who I really am.’ He shrugged. ‘I don’t know. Maybe I should. I can acknowledge the possibility that if looked more carefully at myself, I would …’

For the briefest moment I sensed Mark hesitate, like a rock climber losing his footing. Then, almost immediately, he regained his composure and waved for the check.

‘Who knows?’ he said. ‘What’s certain is that I don’t need the stress. Life’s hard enough without all that excess baggage.’

We stood up to leave, and I insisted on paying the bill. Outside we exchanged addresses and promised to write, with a dishonesty that made my heart ache.

Continues with page 345.



barry, brother Mark and his wife, meet in Beijing

November 18, 2009

Updated

Seems barry made his family top priority upon arriving in China. He met with his half-brother Mark Okoth Obama Ndesandjo and his Chinese wife of one year, Liu Xuehua. They live in Shenzhen (hour’s train ride from Hong Kong) but had flown to Beijing for the meeting.

See here for background info on Mr Ndesandjo and his book: Nairobi to Shenzhen.

Dreams From My Father excerpt re: meeting Mark.

Left, Mark Ndesandjo, U.S. President Barack Obama's half-brother. Right President Barack Obama

Source: UKTimes

As for their visit:

MARK: My big brother, you know I think he was on his way to see the President of China. He came directly off the plane, changed some clothes and then came down and saw us. And he just gave me a big hug. And it was so intense. I’m still over the moon on it. I am over the moon. And my wife… I think she is still recovering. She is his greatest fan.

What did they talk about?

All I can say is, we talked about family, and it was very powerful because when he came in through that door, and I saw him and I hugged him, and he hugged me and hugged my wife – it was like we were continuing a conversation that had started many years ago.

Mark had been at the Inauguration but barry had met him previously while he (Mark) was studying at Stanford. The encounter wasn’t what barry expected. ["Dreams" excerpt.] He found his brother to be comfortable in his skin, without illusions of who their father was – meaning he didn’t fit in barry’s narrative so there were no future meetings as far as the book went.

What did barry say about Mark’s book?

It’s no secret that my father was a troubled person. Anybody who’s read my first book, Dreams of My Father, knows that, you know, he had an alcoholism problem and that he didn’t treat his families very well. And, you know, so, obviously, that’s just a sad part of my history and my background.

But it’s not something that I spend a lot of time brooding over.

No he broods over the horrible racist upbringing he had at the hands of the typical white person family, who didn’t abandon him and made it possible for him to be president.

Meet barry’s brother: Mark Okoth Obama Ndesandjo

November 8, 2009

Updated

barry, brother Mark and his wife meet in Beijing (pix)

barry’s half brother, Mark Okoth Obama Ndesandjo (same father different white mothers – Ruth Nidesand of Jewish-Lithuanian background) gave a press conference re: his new book: Nairobi to Shenzhen“. Although based on his life it is a work of fiction – 15% of the proceeds will be donated to charities for children.

As far as his name, the majority of his life he used only his stepfather’s Tanzanian surname: Ndesandjo because he “didn’t want anything to do with the Obama name”. He since added Okoth, a word from his father’s Luo Tribe. (Haven’t come across the meaning.)

American citizen
Presently lives in China
Younger than barry (doesn’t tell age – 43?)
Spent most of childhood in Kenya
Educated in Nairobi and then the US

Brown University, BS Physics
Standford University, Masters Physics
Emory University, MBA
Telecommunications and marketing
Nortel Works, Atlanta

Met barry in the 80’s (Dreams excerpt)
Saw him in Austin, TX before the debate there
Was at the Inauguration
Will meet up with barry in Beijing

Moved to China “after Sept 11 when his job was cut”
Taught English
Volunteered as a piano teacher at an orphanage
Speaks fluent Mandarin, does calligraphy, writes
Trained classical pianist

Met his wife, Liu Xuehua, in China
She is native of central Henan Province
Married 1 year, no children
They live in Shenzhen (hour train ride from Hong Kong)
Works as a consultant in strategic marketing
WorldNexus

AMAZON:

The protagonist, upon arriving in China in the wake of 911 and the onset of a terrifying global war, is forced to confront his early experiences in Kenya and the United States as a result of his growing love for a beautiful Chinese woman and a young orphan. Parallels between his own upbringing and the potential family that lies before him lead to questions about his true identity, the complexities of his multi-racial family and the relationship he had known with his father.

My mother used to say of my father he was a brilliant man but a social failure.

I remember situations when I was growing up, and there would be a light coming from our living room, and I could hear thuds. I could hear thuds and screams, and my father’s voice and my mother shouting. I remember one night when she ran out into the street and she didn’t know where to go.

AP:

Another of the president’s half brothers, George Obama, 27, of Huruma, Kenya, has penned a memoir that will be published by Simon and Schuster in January 2010.

Other Obama relatives working on books include a half sister, Maya Soetoro-Ng, daughter of Obama’s mother and her second husband, Lolo Soetoro; and Craig Robinson, first lady Michelle Obama’s brother.


Monday, January 5, 2009

obama v obama divorce record

January 5, 2009

Philip Berg has obtained barry's parent's divorce record.

Stanley Ann D. Obama vs. Barack H. Obama which was filed in the First District Court of Hawaii on January 20, 1964. The Obama divorce was finalized on March 5, 1964.

The Obama divorce records state there was one child born to the parties on August 4, 1961, a son, by the name of Barack Hussein Obama, II. There is absolutely no mention of where the child was born.

That would have been too easy. I remember reading in barry's book that he was afraid to look up his parent's marriage records. He didn't say why but it's not hard to conjecture. He did however say that he had his original birth certificate - so why the hiding?

Background and relevant documents re: barry's eligibility to be POTUS.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Obama's great-great-great grandmother's grave found

Grave marker of barry's great-great-great-grandmother's uncovered in Everett, Washington

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Photo courtesy of MICHEAL O'LEARY / The Herald
Source: Snohomish County's HeraldNet's ERIC STEVICK

According to STEVICK's article, on October 14th, Obama's great-great-great grandmother, Rachel Wolfley's grave marker was uncovered in Evergreen Cemetery in Everett, Washington. She was born and grew up in Ohio and then lived in Ohio and Kansas as a married woman. Her husband, Robert Wolfley, was a farmer and served in the Civil War.

"Military records show that Robert Wolfley served with Company A in the 145th Ohio National Guard infantry near the end of the war. It was a 100-day regiment formed to protect Washington, D.C., during the major campaigns that Gen. Ulysses S. Grant led into Virginia in the spring of 1864, Shipman said. He received a Civil War pension, which went to his wife after he died in 1895."

He was buried in Olathe, Kansas and she presumably moved from Kansas to live with her daughter, Addie "Anna" Butts and son-in-law, Nathan Butts, whom she is buried beside.

Mrs Wolfley died on February 8, 1911 at age 75 after a prolonged illness. I wonder what it was - 75 was a long life back then. And I wonder if her husband was wounded during the war and what he died of. She reportedly belonged to Methodist Episcopal Church.

Snohomish resident Karyn Weingarden and retired funeral home director, Jim Shipman, who once managed the cemetery, found her final place of rest after being prompted by a phone call. Strange how his grandmother, Madelyn Dunham died less than three weeks later.

Obama's Washington campaign director, Joshua Field, confirmed the story. I wonder if this much research has been put into finding Obama's African relatives by anyone other than Axelrod - so he can keep them hidden. Barry plays up his African Americanness and yet hides his black family and dismisses his white ones. Nobody but his sister, Maya Soetero-Ng, knows the truth and she isn't talking. The pro-Obama media has been noticeably quiet about his illegal alien aunt and about the burial plans for Mrs Dunham, but have written article after article about the potential first pet.

Obama's mother Stanley "Ann" Dunham was born in Kansas and spent her high school years in Mercer Island, Washington. She moved with her parents to Oahu, Hawaii where she met Barack Obama Sr, a Kenyan in the US on an education grant and in due course Barry arrived.

For the record, Barry Sr did not come over on a JFK sponsored airlift and Jr wasn't born because his parents got together after Selma (he was already 3).

Here is the extreme irony of this. Barry had no exposure to segregation. He was born in the most diverse state (which had just joined the union) at a time when interracial marriage was legal. He had never traveled in the south until his campaign. In fact, the first time he visited his mother's birthplace was on the stump.

He is African American in that his father was from Kenya - no relation to American slavery. He was not an immigrant and did not apply for nor become an American citizen. Whereas, his mother's family held slaves and fought in the Civil War (for the North).

So, yes, he identifies himself as African American, which he is genetically, but he is biracial and has no relationship to the plight of the Oppressed Southern Negro.

Rev Jesse Jackson might well be in a castrating mood while Barry lectured the black community about "their burden", "their responsibility" and "the need for reparations".

Barry's family is the one who may owe reparations - he is not a black man who is owed reparations.

One wonders how he reconciles this when he gets up and speaks for "black America". He was given a book deal (because he was the first African American President of the Harvard Law Review) to discuss race in American. To that end, his book of mythology chronicled the racism he was allegedly exposed to as a way to give himself credibility. Who can challenge him? Some of his claims have been downplayed by those close to him at the time. (I'd find the quotes but nobody cares.) For instance, no one corroborated his claim of racial epithets repeatedly scrawled on the bathroom walls at Columbia - though it would be very easy to check since he writes the admistration painted them over.

He created his story. He admitted to it later in his re-release Preface. He admitted to making up composite characters. Once his characters are called into questions - so his own. In particular because, prior to being found out, he had stood by it's integrity.

Who is left to vet it? Why was his grandmother sequestered away? His sister is the only one who knows truth as far Barry goes. Think of the enormous burden she must carry - especially now as she grieves alone for a woman that she alone has cared for for decades. Add to that the need to answer direct or silent questions about a brother who can't fly his ready at a moment's notice private jet to honor his late grandmother. He couldn't even find it in his heart to stay one more day to celebrate his grandmother's 86th and final birthday.

How does one do this and then not mention her death until the press found out about it later in the day? Totally not mentioning it on his first campaign spot with no outward signs of grief and then once it was made known shed a few tears for his audience. I can't judge him or his method of grief - it defies logic - and if he is anything, he is logical.

It's sad really. Listen to his own words and watch him say them. He speaks about not wanting to make the same mistake twice: missing his grandmother's death like he did his mother's.

BARRY: "Most people understand that if you are not caring for your family, then you are probably not the kind of person who is going to be caring for other people."

His mother, his grandmother, his aunt, who is in the country illegally (barry first sponsored her nine years ago) and then there is his his half-brother George living in severe poverty and his grandmother scraping by. One of barrys $2000 suits could make the African blood he claims comfortable for a year. George lives on $1/month and just wants to live without using his fists and without the threat of being shot or macheted to death.

How is this ok? How can he talk about "saving Africa" when he ignores the well-being of his own African family? Barry is being deified by the world while he neglects his own blood. He lets his aunt live in the country illegally (He knew and Axelrod knew) and then when she is discovered, he said he had no idea, that he hasn't been able to talk to her and that laws must be enforced. Who believes this? He says he doesn't want to make the same mistake twice and then he is too busy to go to Hawaii to comfort his sister, who is all alone, and who all alone knows the truth. I cannot imagine being in that situation. What does she tell her children?

Barry's words, as usual--as always--are just that.

My friends, what are you not seeing?