Octuplets: What is it going to take?

March 2, 2009

I needed a few days to tone down this post. I have such ire towards that woman and even more towards Child Protective Services.

What sane woman, what woman with any type of maternal judgment, what single mother with no ability to care for herself or her children - including food, clothing and shelter - turns down free 24/7 professional care for all 14 of her children?

That alone is clear evidence of delusional madness.

What more is it going to take Child Protective Services?

What is it going to take to protect the six children who are and have been neglected?

They are suffering right now. They have been suffering. And they have said they don’t want those children.

They are being neglected and are being deprived of a mother.

Yes. A mother. No mother would turn down what she did.

Especially when the deal included individual care and developmental evaluation and therapy for the other 6 children - in particular the 3 who have been reported to have neurological disabilities - including a boy with autism, who is unable to even feed himself.

That is heinous.

Absolutely heinous.

I honestly did not think she could top the selfishness she had already shown by using her uterus as a birthing factory to fulfill her own delusional desires.

That is not only neglect - it is abuse.

She is turning down care that would have helped her older children cope - care they needed before the octuplets showed up.

And the care Angels in Waiting would have been providing would have been free, not only to the mother, but also the California taxpayers.

Why is this woman being given a choice about anything?

Child Protective Services: can’t you see what her “choices” have lead to?

How much more impaired must she get until you step in and order a psychiatric evaluation?

14 lives depend on her judgment.

She just turned down 24/7 high quality care - better than in the hospital is presently providing - because it would target the older children as well.

What more evidence of poor judgment is there?

What is it going to take?

The grandfather going back to Iraq?

The grandmother going off to Europe like she said she was ready to do? She already doesn’t sleep overnight because of the noise. How much rest have the neurologically sensitive children been getting?

Is there a single person on this planet who thinks even just the two oldest are safe in a house with this woman without adult - yes, adult - supervision?

What if it were drugs clouding her judgment?

There would be no absolutely question those children would be taken from her - maybe all 14. And there would be absolutely no hesitation in not releasing the octuplets to her care.

How many drug addicted mothers - even in the deepest darkest depth of their addlement - would pass up free 24/7 professional nursing care for all 14 children?

Never ever happen.

Not on this planet.

Please evaluate that woman.

Immediately.

Before an infant “rolls off” the changing table, before one doesn’t get fed for 24 hrs, before an older child accidentally or in an uncontrollable tantrum involuntarily or intentional hurts one or more of the preemies.

Someone has to evaluate the children with neurological disabilities to determine their level of frustration and propensity toward violence. I am not suggesting this is the case, but it is standard care - or at least should be - when a mother lacks judgment - the entire family needs to be evaluated.

Would not that be happening if the mother was an alcoholic?

Of course it would.

Again, Child Protective Services, I am beseeching you and in no uncertain terms warning you that if those octuplets go home with that woman there will be a very bad outcome. That is 100% guaranteed, unless she first receives some type of mental health care and then who knows. She has had seven years to develop responsibility “the word she keeps hearing” and she has not done so.

She said on video, which will be used in future court case(s), that she was going to immerse herself in taking care of her children. That is a stone cold admission that she has not been doing so. Flat out 100%.

Please watch that video of her and her mother. The evidence is clear in her eyes, her face, her words and her body language and it has been confirmed by her actions - nothing more clear than her decision to turn down professional care.

She is seriously incapable of caring for even one child and she is in need of serious mental health assistance for herself.

Remember, her own father asked Oprah for a mental exam for her child and he stated unequivocally that his daughter is “NOT MENTALLY COMPLETE”.

The grandmother has said: “The truth is Nadya is not capable of raising 14 children.” & “I’m really tired of taking care of the six children.” & “She really has no idea what she is doing to her children and me.”

These statements will be Exhibit A and no further Exhibits will be needed except for the pictures, xrays, doctors’ and therapists’ reports, and God forbid, coroner’s report.

I am not kidding.

And you should be taking it just as seriously.

This is an emergency situation with potentially lethal consequences.

You, right now, have the future of all 14 children in your hands.

You have their very lives in your hands.

You, and you alone.

The only other 2 adults in these children’s lives have allowed it to get to this point. The grandmother said she is the primary caregiver and her daughter cannot care for them and the grandfather says his daughter is not mentally competent and yet they allowed 14 lives to be put in her hands. They allowed their daughter to do this.

Please know that I am not the only one who has seen her madness - the entire world has - and we have been watching you do nothing.

Six children are relying on you doing your job and eight more hang in the balance.

In my next post, I will offer you a simple test that does not require a therapist or any type of formal psychiatric evaluation, and it can be performed without her knowledge, and with the staff right at there at the hospital.

I am just one person, but I am not going away, and I will continue to document everything I am able (as you can see)…even if it means having to watch Dr Phil.

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(1-30) Octuplets: Ethics of fertility treatment?
(1-30) Octuplets: What is really going on?
(2-9) Octuplets: Should not go home with that woman
(2-9) Octuplets: Octuplets: already filthy house unfit for children (pix)
(2-23) Octuplets: Mother vs grandmother caught on tape
(2-24) Octuplets: Cosmetic surgery, IVF, food stamps, disability, bankruptcy & foreclosure
(2-24) Octuplets: Mother before/after plastic surgery & Angelina Jolie (pix)
(2-25) Octuplets: Grandfather on Oprah daughter “not mentally complete”
(2-25) Octuplets: Hospital questioning her ability to care for children
(2-26) Octuplets: Video of inside the home
(2-26) Octuplets: Body language mother vs grandmother video (Part 1)
(2-26) Octuplets: Body language mother vs grandmother video (Part 2)
(2-27) Octuplets: Man claiming to be sperm donor
(2-27) Octuplets: Grandmother on The Early Show (Part 1)
(2-27) Octuplets: Grandmother on The Early Show (Part 2)
(2-27) Octuplets: Grandmother on The Early Show (Part 3)
(2-27) Octuplets: Grandmother’s first interview (Feb 9th)
(2-29) Octuplets: What about the other children?
(3-2) Octuplets: Angels in Waiting’s offer of free 24/7 care for all 14 was REFUSED
(3-2) Octuplets: What is it going to take?